Maybe the reason why they don't go out together is to that people don't scrutinize about what they are wearing and not wearing or how far apart they are standing or if they are holding hands or not holding hands or if one of them is looking in an opposite direction or, and this one is my favorite, "body language".   No relationship is perfect.  I just think that people are too quick to pass judgment on celebrities based on what they see in pictures...or don't see in pictures.  People Magazine might have their sources but they failed mention important information, such as Vanessa not just "attending" a concert in France - she was a "performer" there and star of the concert is a very close friend of theirs...and then there is the boat where they supposedly went in separate directions and that was because he was there on break while filiming Dark Shadows and she was going back to LA with the kids.  I could go on and on but the pictures I saw from them the boat in the summer were two people totally in love.